New Me.

So I have recently lost 30lbs, and have reached my high school weight. And honestly I haven't been trying so hard.  I have cut out all things bad for me.  Picked up the exercise slightly, and find myself out and about moving more.  I just wanted to share some before and during pictures.

BEFORE

DURING 

New Years Eve in my little black dress!

22lbs lighter here 

CURRENTLY

This is me at work the other day in jeans that I haven't been able to fit into in 3 years.  I wore another pair of those jeans today... and they had no stretch!  

My Goal: lose another 20lbs

My baby sister doesn't like this goal... She told me today that I am getting to skinny and am no longer "perfect huggable size." (She would tell me this when I would tell her that I was fat or chubby) She told me that she doesn't want to be wrapping her arms around me and herself when she hugs me.  I couldn't help but think how very blessed I am to have a sister that loves me no matter what size I am.  She has always saw my beauty even when I haven't.  Michaela Hazelann, your words me more to me then you will ever know.  I love you dearly little Sis! 

Missing Pieces.

I find myself not doing anything I normally do.  I find myself forgetting to journal and write down my thoughts.  I find myself really hoping and praying that the middle of February gets here quick.  I need my routine back.  I need to feel normal again.  And I have come to the conclusion that will not happen until I get my Tuesday night small groups back.  Until I get the people I love so very much back.  Don't get me wrong I have loved these past 3 month of basketball, and I will probably continue to do it for years to come, but I need my friends.  I need to be around the people that mean so much to me.  My mentors, the women and men who have taught me so much.  It's crazy how I feel so lost without them and there constant encouragement.  Soon I will be back, and soon things will be normal again.

Moving.

Yeah Buddy!  I am moving out of my parents house, and I seriously couldn't be more excited.  I am really ready to move out on my own.  Well not all on my own, away from my family.  I love them, but there comes a time when I need to grow up.  I mean my mom still pretty much does everything for me.  And I think that it's time I create my own way and my own path.  I am really thankful for my parents they have been there through everything and taught me so much, but I am ready. 

God has really laid this all out for me.  I have been praying for a place to go, and He presented one for me.  I mean he really laid out on a silver platter.  I have been praying for a while for some where I could go.  Some where closer to everything else that I love.  My church, small group, all my friends... Everything is in Yakima.  So that's where I am headed.  A couple about my age has asked me to move into their basement.  And I thought about it prayed about it, everything seemed to be right... The only thing that would hold me back would be the cost.  Right now I am so very thankful because where I had sent my limit isn't anywhere close to what I will have to pay.  I am so very happy!  God is so faithful.  He continues to bless me each and everyday!!

So as of February 1st I will be all moved out of my parents house and moved into my new home.  Boy, I cannot wait to see what else God has planned for me this year!!

The Push.

Plenty of times in my life I have fallen short of reaching my goal.  Plenty of times I have pushed for something and not pushed hard enough.  So from now on ... when I set a goal I am going to try my hardest to reach it.  Like my new weight loss challenge.  As so of you know I have lost 25 lbs. Normally by  now I would have given up and moved on to something else, but I want to reach my goal.  I already feel so much better.  For once in a long time I am walking with my head held high.  I feel so confident.  I want to lose about 20-30 more pounds, and I know I can do it.  I cannot give up. I will not give up.  I am giving myself until my 26th birth.  That's 5 months for a rocking new body.  The thing is... its not about wanting to look better... its about being healthy and happy.  So here's to the next goal in my life.  The one that I will be achieving...

I not only want to be healthy because I want to feel better, but I want to have more energy.  Being a lazy bum, just isn't something that I want to be.  It's something I used to be... So I would love a little encouragement throughout my newest journey.  

You.

The funny thing is.. As I think more and more about last week... I keep reminding myself that letting you go was a long time coming. Feeling a weight instantly being lifted off my shoulders as I walked with my head held high out of your house. Yes, tears were falling because I will honestly miss your company. You made me laugh, and filled the empty spot in my heart. The empty spot I allowed you to create. Nine months is a long time to be living a lie. I wanted so badly for you to want me as much as I wanted you... Nine months I waited, and things were great for the first month, then you decided you didn't want me. But I hung around... You kept the hope alive. Taking me to the movies, holding my hand, putting your arm around me... Kissing me like I was the only girl you ever wanted to kiss again. Showing me the affection I thought I was missing. I put friendships on hold for you, and I was even willing to let some of them fall apart. Lies and deceit was all I knew with you. One lie to this person, turned into two lies to that person. I am sitting here feeling free. Feeling... Not broken. It's funny because when I look back, I couldn't me more thankful, you opened my eyes to a lot. Made me aware of who I really am. Made me value myself, made me realize that even though my heart was in the right place my mind definitely wasn't. I wasn't seeing clearly. I wasn't thinking straight. I was ignoring all the signs that you weren't the right one for me. You are nothing like the right guy will be like. The right guy will value me as much as I value myself. The right guy will love me... And treat me with respect. You did none of that, but I allowed it. I continually went back for more. I allowed myself to feel alone, and sad. I thought that it was all part of the process... The process where you change your mind, and fall madly and deeply in love with me. It just wasn't the case because as we grow father and father apart the tighter I held on. You mentioned dating someone else... I don't think I have ever felt more broken, and for a month and a half... I felt sick to my stomach every time you would call or text me, but I always answered and I always gave in. Not this time... This time... All I have to do is remind myself... That I am the daughter of the King, and that means I know the Lord has someone perfect for me. Someone who will treat me like the amazing, funny, thoughtful, hardworking, Jesus loving, caring Princess God created me to be. I won't be an option, and I sure won't be the one doing the chasing... So from now on you will only be a memory to me. Only a time in my life that I had to go through to realize how lucky I am that the Lord forgives. I will not use this as an excuse.... I will grow and learn from it. My life will be better, so I thank you. I thank you for everything... You made me stronger... Made me more aware of myself, and my flaws. You made me aware of my temptations, and of the things I lust after. So today, tomorrow, and forever more... I will look back and smile because I have grown in this situation. I have changed... You renewed my love for the Lord, and my want to please only Him. He's all that matters. It's tough to follow your heart... But I will never regret doing so.